You know she has to be wondering what the matchmakers saw in her to match her with such an awful man. She was right—she is just too mature for where he is in life. And they underestimated just how self-sufficient she is. I hope she can meet an equal partner. » 10/01/14 8:32am Today 8:32am

I went to a wedding as the guest of my boyfriend, so I didn't know too many people. The groom was softly sobbing as he waited at the altar. As the bride started down the aisle, he started wailing. When she reached him, his knees buckled and he fell down, rocking back and forth on his knees, sobbing like a baby. The… » 9/26/14 4:39pm Friday 4:39pm

The series on Books You Must Read Now has given me so many new authors and hours of happy reading. My husband and I are reading Tana French together and loving each book more. Keep up the great articles, Gawker. » 9/26/14 10:31am Friday 10:31am

So Wednesday night is bar night with the guys, and they loved this story. They wanted to know if she used almonds for the clitoris, if there was any disclaimer that not all vaginsa are color-coded, and why this wasn't an option for them in college. I am seeing a buainess opportunity here. » 9/24/14 11:04pm 9/24/14 11:04pm

Does anyone know how Anonymous feels about these nude hacker leaks? If they were willing to expose rapists, they should be appalled by this behavior. I just want to think that there's a chance that these sexist hacker assholes will be exposed.. » 9/22/14 9:54pm 9/22/14 9:54pm

Give yourself time to hit your stride. I've been practicing 20 years, 15 at my current job. I never felt confident until the last couple years, when I realized that I am well-suited for my job. I constantly compared myself to others and let some of the pettiness sink in. But I have my own voice and my own style and I… » 9/20/14 9:39pm 9/20/14 9:39pm

And they both had fathers in the military. What are the odds? I think they placed a lot of emphasis on family backgrounds bc Jason is a firefighter like Courtney's father. But deceased military dads is a bit of a stretch, especially when you consider that they had nothing else in common. » 9/17/14 4:43pm 9/17/14 4:43pm

I am followed now, so I assume out of the grey. Yesterday I was in several conversations and my relatively old age came up and I ended up explaining that I have been on Jezebel from week 1. I also offered to bribe my way to black. Make your case and explain why you deserve to come over to the dark side. I think a lot… » 9/14/14 11:56pm 9/14/14 11:56pm